EFFEMINATE

In I Cor. 6:9-11, God gives us a list of those that will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Although I'm sure some churches may have some of the listed attributes among their members, there seems to be one in particular that's not only growing, but is also being accepted. With that being said, I wish to deal with this issue: The growing problem of young men being effeminate. It is sad to shake hands with young men that are soft and extend no might in their grip. Teen-age boys are swaying when they walk like whorish women. Many talk, flutter their eyes, and even express themselves like a female. I will address this issue from the Bible within this short article.

1. IT IS A SIN - Many people don't realize that God listed this with other perverse sins of the flesh. Being effeminate is not just a personality or habit; It is wicked in the sight of God.

2. IT SWITCHES LEADERSHIIP - Sissy men will marry a BOSSY, LOUD, and HEAD-STRONG woman every time. This is exactly what God doesn't want m our homes. Effeminate men are passive cowards that will let a woman lead them around by the nose for the rest of their life.

3. IT STARTS THE PATH TO PERVERSION - I cant say that all effeminate men are sodomites, yet I can prove that being effeminate will lead you to accept that perverted life-style. This generation of boys that have never gotten dirty, played rough, or worked hard, has now filled our churches with clean cut, suit-wearing, church-going "PANSIES".

I have made a list of 15 ways to detect early signs of an effeminate boy:

1. A boy always wanting to play a female when playing with other kids.

2. Boys wanting to wear soft clothing, apply make-up, paint fingernails, and pick up on female gestures.

3. Boys that have only women to look up to for leadership in life.

4. Dissatisfaction in their sexuality. [Male]

5. Desiring a woman's career for their life.

6. Being raised by older sisters, or a passive father.

7. Admire known sodomites as their heroes.

8. Always wanting to be with other boys during bath, changing, or sleeping.

9. Boys that are molested young in life tend to molest others.

10. Restricted from being a boy. Never allowed to play rough, get strong, or dirty.

11. Raised without any discipline, responsibilities, or accountability.

12. Boys exposed to graphic pictures, videos, or books.

13. Boys that make their body their god. Body worship is a sign of a pervert. [Romans 1].

14. Boys in a school system, or home, that teaches sodomy is just an alternate lifestyle.

15. Boys that are overly fascinated with the earth. All sodomites in the Bible were earth-worshipers

In closing, I wish to help those that may have this to deal with in the life of their own child.

1. Early awareness of the problem - don't act as if it will go away. Deal with the situation now!

2. Emotional security - Most young men that fall into this lifestyle come from an environment that is very unstable.

3. Encourage manhood - Give space for them to make certain decisions in their life when the time comes. Let them experience the role of leadership in their life, and teach them that life is full of decisions.

4. Explain God's purpose - Bible teaching at a young age should be brought to light concerning God's reason for male and female. God made you a boy to lead your home, and make sure that it honors God. He made the female to follow her husband and be keeper at home.

5. Endeavor to keep them occupied - Boys with much idle time will find themselves in trouble. Let them cut the grass, take out the garbage, clean up the yard, and help fix things, so they can experience the joy of being somebody that has done something.

If we don't turn this generation around, these effeminate boys will be pastoring churches later on. That, in turn, means they will be run by a woman at home, and by women at the church. Any church with this structure will soon allow sodomites to be active members, and will welcome them with open arms.

Dr. Phil Kidd - Amory, Mississippi